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Facing a dilemma and kind of long(mature and open minded people answer only)? i been married 5 years. My marriage was arranged and its not the fact that it was arranged that i am having problems as u can see in this marriage and divorce forum, problems also arise in people who know each other for five + years before getting married.i brought him here from another country so while i was getting a husband he was getting into US. He was extremely nice back in his country but yes i know he needed to be nice but i kept an open mind that not everybody is the same. some people are genuine. i started having a funny feeling two three months after he got to US(loss of interest, less talking on the phone when he was in another city for job, overall nasty attitude). i could feel that where he was from he never ever seen a girls legs bare but now he can see bikinis, boobs that are all out for u to see . but even though it was ok with me if u look but he was pushing me away and made me feel like i was not pretty enough for him now since he seen so many hot blonde chicks in america. i felt shitty, sad depressed. he would find any little excuse to n0t talk to me for week.I got pregnant, sex life was like this i felt he watched porn and then ****** me without any feelings while pregnant but i never seen him watch it. so for five months of my pregnancy he treated me like crap and looked at me with face like ewe she is my wife.( i am hurt to this day from that). well one day he forgot to delete history and i see all these sexy this and sexy that searches. i asked him so this is the reason u didnt like me all of sudden. i was hurt and wanted to just get out but he cried and begged and said i am sorry i didn;t know what i had. i will never treat u like that again. so i gave birth to my son and tried to forget but couldnt believe he hurt me so much. i mean i guess that wasn't enough for him he became a citizen and well same feeling started coming back. i started school and behind my back he was downloading porn every single day and i was fighting with him about not having sex with me( prolly once a month). i knew he was watching porn because i had spyware but never told him i knew. i was sad that he would rather masturbate and watch blonde chicks get ****** then love me. so this happend for two years and when i told him i knew what he was doing and i am hurt not that he watched porn but i wasnt good enuf for him to have sex. and if he wants to ever watch porn he will tell me we will watch it together at first he said ok but after watching it 3 or 4 times with me he probably doesn't like it and now when i ask him so wat happened he says o I don't want to watch porn. i want to change for us. i know he is bullshitting me cuz he is so used to watching porn by himself he doesn't like me with him. its pisses me off.i mean feeding me bullshit about changing when he couldn't live without fuking naked girls but could live without having sex with me for a month. its sick. i am currently 5 months pregnant after we made a deal and he is pulling same **** again i am extremely hurt and cant get over the fact that he chose other people to watch over me. i must be ugly or something. sometimes i dont want to talk to him and he ******* tries to mentally manipulate me by sleeping on the floor when i tell him leave me alone. so i have to go up to him and ask him to come on bed and be nice. he is playing games or he would not eat dinner since i am not properly talking to him. i am really sick of this. when he compliments me it means nothing to me. when i asked him what kind of women he likes after kinda making him feel i am ok with it he told me i like white girls with big boobs. i know that, i am olive complexion and he wasnt turned on by me. i mean i have guys hitting on me all the time even when pregnant but it doesnt mean nothing when somebody i loved doesnt even find me good enough to have sex with me. i am sad and embarrassed. i know he wants me as a wife so he has a family and that's it. he cant change the fact that i am not his type. but now he is not my type either. i want somebody whose honest who loves my body, me and everything i can bring to the relationship instead of just having a complete family. what do u think i should do or try to do. i put up a face of niceness so he wont sleep on floor or say i dont want to eat dinner. i am sick of being nice to bitches but cant help it. HELP plz.
thanks | Porn is a real addiction. The high a person gets is kind of like a drug.
There is nothing wrong with you. It's the fantasy world he is living that is messing him up.
I'd like to suggest you see if you can find a Celebrate Recovery group in your area. CR deals with all kinds of problems from chemical addictions to porn to overeating and bulimia. You need to go also to find some healing from all the crap he's put you through and to find some support from others who live with someone who has an addiction. | I called her a name...and i want to apologize you know..? im going to use superhero names to conceal the identities of the people involved.
Okay so, i was at school with 2 friends of mine, Aquaman and Superman. i trusted them. Superman asked me what i think about Wonderwoman and i responded "slut, but hot." and it was after that moment that superman informed me Aquaman and WOnderwoman were in a relationship and both of them laughed at me, i joined in and said "good luck bro". Aquaman and Superman walked away and i 5 seconds later i realized i needed to get to my next class and i just followed far behind superman and aquaman just because our classes were in the same direction. ANyway, wonderwoman found aquaman and superman and they all walked together. It was at this point that i overheard Superman saying "he called you a slut" and at that moment i freaked and was like "what the hell...". i used to believe in the man-man honor system. Anyway, the next day wonderwoman confronted me about it, Catwoman was nearby. I think i liked catwoman because she is like perfect, funny, athletic, blonde and i knew i was ******. the only reason i called her a slut was because of a rumour i had heard about her last year. to this moment i am still unsure aboout the rumour. In COnclusion, how do i apologize to wonderwoman so i can get at catwoman | | well catwoman shouldn't care what you said about wonderwoman especially if the rumor is true. all you can do is apologize and try to talk to catwoman. if she's not interested because of something you said about wonderwoman than let it go | This bewilders me alot!? Why is you always see ugly blonde men with a misrable expression on thier face with a hot brunnete by his side and yet you see like handsome dark haired men with a superficial blonde or plain red head?
Dammit the worlds ****** up. | | because girls like blondes and a lot of blonde guys are sad or depressed(srry if this is offensive) and lots of dark haired guys are deeper and dont care what the girl looks like so they end up with the plain ones. | How to get over this nasty jealousy that my husband instilled in me..? first of all before i got married i was a pretty open minded person who was not a bit jealous of anything. i got married to a douchebag (it was arranged). i gave my heart to hiim thinking he was a sweety guy who loved me. but i started feeling he was not into me as much as i was intohim. so i find out that he was watching porn all the time behind my back but even that was ok with me, the thing that i was not cool with was that he would not be cool if i was even thinking abt watching porn behind his back and being a hypocrite he would probably leave me if he ever found out that i had those kind of feeling for even somebody on computer. So i guess when i actually show him that i know he is watching it, he was extremely sorry that he made me feel like ****. i guess he was playing games. so we had a baby and he was supposed to change but i guess he doesnt need to.HE started avoiding sex with me and was again watching porn behind my back, i mean he would not have se'x with me prolly once a month or twice a month. i confronted him and he came clean. he said he is mental thats why he is like that. i am sick of this ****. he uses his excuses . i do know that he like blonde chicks with big boobs. while i am a olive skin slender girl with everything average. Now i am so jealous that we go to market and i can feel him trying to get a look at some hot girl behind my back, makes me wanna kill him. he did this to me. i ask him wat was wrong with me that he didn;t even wanna *** me and was rather masturbating to porn. he just goes quiet. i want to cry.i am tired of him making me feel like ****. i am actually starting to hate him. i know he wants to stay with me for just better life. i am a good mother, good cook and take care of everybody's needs and he knows he wont be able to find all those qualities in some hot chicks with big boobs. i am by all means pretty since i get hit on plenty. but it doesnt matter since i have a ****** up life. WHAT shuld i do. he wants me to act happy so he can be happy if i dont talk to him or just feel sad abt life in general he manipulates the situation by not eating dinner or just laying in bed until i go close to him. i fake being nice to him, i know he thought he can just keep doing this to me.I mean i dont want to be nice to him. i feel angry all the time and embarrased that i am still here but i have no choice.how can i let him know it is not ok with me to make me feel like dirt. what can i do pleeeeeeeeaseeeeeeeeeee advice me.how can i do that without leaving same house | He has an addiction to his porn. Some men can't handle it and go overboard, it's all they ever think about is sex, and they masturbate constantly. To the point where they can't even get it up anymore for a real woman. Some men can only get off to crap on the computer.
Unless he is willing to admit he has a problem, and he does. Then this marriage won't work. I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but if he won't change this problem of his, then you two will never have sex again, and you will despise him.
This happens to many marriages in the states and in Canada, it is becoming a growing problem nationally.
Once the human brain becomes accustomed to using internet "influences" the brain developes new, quicker pathways of thought to become arroused. It can literally prevent a man from becoming arroused by a real woman.
I suggest you go and start seeing a counselor, even if your husband won't go with you. Try to get him to go with you, but if he refuses, go on your own. It will benefit you greatly.
I'm sorry you're going through this, and good luck. | I have awful self esteem, help? For as long as I can remember I have hated myself. I never found the beauty in myself and it's definitely getting the best of me. I'm not the "stereotypical" pretty, like: I don't have blonde hair, huge boobs, or a completely skinny body. I have all black hair (it's long), piercings, and I don't wear much makeup; I hate it. I have a much different personality than many girls as well. I'm usually the chick that hangs out with all the guys and helps them pick out "hot" girls. I'm not sure what to do anymore. I just want to be pretty, to be hot, to be beautiful. I hate myself, I absolutely hate myself. I feel worthless and I hate to sound emo >< I almost killed myself over THIS, I had to be placed in treatment for a few weeks. I just need help... Help finding myself and help finding my beauty. What do I do?
What's the average weight for a 15 year old? I weight 115... And I'm probably 5'4". I know I'm young and you'll all probably tell me that I have to wait to "mature", but it's not true, I hurt just as much as anyone else. I hate this. My life is ******; meth, cutting, abusive relationship, loss of virginity at 13, pot, dealing drugs, I don't even know... I feel... Bleh | Trust me, you're not alone, and although a lot of people will tell you that everyone goes through the same thing at that age and you'll grow out of it, I'm 28, and I'm thinking about killing myself as I type. I feel out of place wherever I go or wherever I am. I've hated myself for most of my life, and when I finally started to love who I am, I began hating everyone else. I've dealt drugs, done them, and lost my virginity at 13 too. Hopefully it helps to know that there is someone out there that feels the same way.
I know it may sound corny, but beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder and you seem like a beautiful person from the things you've said. Even if you don't see it, other people will and I'm sure do. For one, you shouldn't compare yourself to those preppy lil' blonde b*tches, because they probably don't have anything else to offer besides their looks. Not everyone is into blondes either. I love brunettes, and I'm not into skinny girls. You probably left your boyfriend for good reason, so you should find someone who is not only attracted to you, but actually understands you, and how you feel.
You seem to suffer from a lot of guilt about feelings that most people consider normal. I do the same thing. The best advice I can give to you is to do things that will make you happy and proud of yourself. Work out. It's been proven that the brain naturally releases endorphins when you exercise. Maybe you should also do things for other people. That might make you feel good about yourself. Not for anyone, but for the people who you love, who actually deserve it.
Check out this book. It's called "Fear No Evil: The Pathwork Method of Transforming The Lower Self" by Eva Pierrakos and Donovan Thesenga. If anything, it will at least change the way you perceive yourself, and it will definitely help you understand why you feel the way you do, and eventually how to change it. | What do you guys think of my verses? From day one felt like I'm destined for greatness
I'm feelin like you've only been destined for fakeness
Before you haters start to judge me get to know my past
****** this game 'til it came when you said I wouldn't last
Made it thru the hard times, made it thru the tears
Made it despite you hatin on me all these ****** years
Bled when you wouldn't, said what you couldn't
Spoken words heard behind my back I warned ya you shouldn't
Rich ******' swag, you a dick suckin' fag
You drink ******' wine coolers, I drink straight Red Stag
Now I'm.. feelin like the best, the new Role-Model
Kids catch me in the spot chillin with Fo' models
**** pacin myself man I'm goin full throttle
What's the point of buyin shots? I'm drinkin the whole bottle
When it's all said and done I'll be the best who ever spit it
And everyone remember you as the dick sucker that never spitted.
It's your boy go show someone, the chosen one.
Lookin' like James Bond with this golden gun
007, better call the Reverend, one shot from this **** will send yo *** to heaven..
Or to hell, Your dumbass couldn't find God if you spent 5 years in jail
Flow so hot it'll make the devil sweat
Clothes so fly look like I'm sittin on a jet
I'm shittin' on the rest, got more b's than a nest
You smellin' like **** go grab a bar of Zest
I daydream bigger than your biggest wishes,
Stay clean ******' the baddest bitches.
**** a hoe, she ain't kno, her best friends next on my hit list
People frontin' sayin They as real as it gets
I saw your fake as on that Diet Dr. Pepper clip
Chillin with Santa, talkin bout snow
Naughty boys on the block tryna move blow
Easter Bunny, Big Foot, Check out the Tooth Fairy.
I'm a monster on this track, just call it Booth Scary.
Now I'm back *****, you wack *****, you know I'm the ****..
Goin' hard, **** foldin' cards, don't know when to quit..
Hard as a diamond, I ain't talkin bout my dick
If I was then we could place the blame all on your chick.
I know I got her wet, so it's a fair trade off
Call her SuperSoaker man that ***** sprayed off
Grim Reaper flow, killin all you hoes
Bring death to your career you already know
**** that girl all she want long as she keep it on the low
And as long as she stay out my biz, it's hoes under bros
I'm white skinned like Mike Jack after the procedure
But I'm on my grind while the rest of ya'll are masters of leisure
One day I'll chill and put my feet up too,
but not until the day I know I'm better than you.
****, I guess I might as well put my feet up now...
Cuz you better than me? Man, I just don't see how....
I'm revolutionary, the rap Paul Revere
Canonball lyrics, I'm spittin so severe
Your girl all up on me speakin in my ear
She say she like my chain, I say I like her rear
I know you're talkin ****, but I can't even hear
My **** legendary, your game ain't even near
I'm God-like, I'm Xerzes, you're Ron White
A new whip, a fat chain, a blonde dyke
Told her she ain't like the dick cuz she ain't never got it right
Went in on that hoe, now she sayin her girlfriend "ain't her type"
They say money makes the world go 'round, but I say it's sex man..
Money been here many years, but what about the rest man?
People want the green so that they can get the pink,
I got green like March 16th, These hoes can't even think
People say the checkin for me, better not blink
If success is a fine line I'm chillin on the brink.
I wrote this kinda quickly.. just wondering if anyone thinks I have any talent and if I should pursue it | | i think you got something good going on, sounds great so far and if you say you wrote this quick id like to see what u can do with time, gangsta as i think you should keep goin with it. :) | Myfiance is secretly having sex with men. He wont admit it, even though i have craiglists posts he posted!? I have been with him for over a year. We are both very sexual, and have experimeted in threesomes, swinger parties etc. I am the aptimy of a woman. Big breasts, skinny, blonde tan. I know he loves me ( got divorced for ME). I was chekcing his email and saw he posted numerous postings on craiglist for m4m casual encounters when he is traveling. He included his accuarate description, his hotel name and his phone number. They were very disturbing. I am attaching one below..
1580515280 Feb 01 10 07:02:06 AM orc men seeking men Visiting married man seeking AM fun in my room
1580248703 Jan 31 10 09:45:16 PM orc casual encounters Hot visiting married guy looking to get ridden - m4m
In town on business and looking for some fun in bed this AM. Lets take a shjower asnd then get under the covers.
Very nice looking 5-11 175lbs shaved and EXTREMELY clean.
Send quick pic and ill give you room number
Multiple men ok as well
that was an ad he posted when he was travelign in california. I confronted him about it, and he got very defenisve and tried to break up with me!!! It seemed as if he knew i knew and he wanted nothign to do with me. I ahve since searched some more and like i said found over 6 posting at different dates and cities basically stating he wnated a guy to come in **** him and leave. I wrote him a letter telling him its ok i know hes bi, and im ok with it. That back fired. freake dotu again saying eh coudlnt live with him self if he had sex w man. He said he is ****** up and lieks to see people reactions to ads. said it suphoric feelign to him to get responses and pretend hes someone hes not, said he has never met anyone. he is a sex addict ( used to frequent massage parlors etc)and is on bi polar meds he has recently taken a great interest in how he looks, and wearing tighter more fashionable clothes. He is very manly, has guys. i dont know what to do. Please help if u have nay advice. | What exactly is your question? This man is living recklessly and if you're smart, you will leave this situation quickly. Sexual orientation has little to do with the fact that he's disrespecting you, betraying you, and ultimately putting your sexual health at extreme risk. This is not someone you should be considering marrying. He was unfaithful to his first wife as you indicated and he's clearly unable to commit. It seems that he's not ready to confront his homosexual tendencies and is angry with you for busting him. Please cut your losses and move on!
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I'm PUERTO RICAN, so I MUST look good and be conceited
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I'm POLISH, so I MUST be greedy
I'm HAWAIIAN so I MUST be lazy
I'm PERUVIAN, so I MUST like llamas
Im a STONER so i MUST be going in the wrong direction
Im a VIRGIN so i MUST be prude
Im STRAIGHT EDGE so i must be violent.
Im SKINNY so I MUST have an eating disorder.
I'm a FEMALE GAMER, so I MUST be ugly.. or crazy.
I'm BLACK so I MUST love fried chicken and kool-aid.
I'm BI so I MUST have SEX a lot.
I'm a GIRL who actually EATS, so i MUST be fat.
I'm SINGLE so I MUST be ugly.
I'm ASIAN so I MUST have a small penis.
I'm CHRISTIAN so I MUST hate homosexuals.
I'm MIXED so i must be ****** up.
I'm MUSLIM so i MUST be a terrorist.
I'm in BAND, so i MUST be a dork.
I'm COLORED so I MUST believe JESUS WUZ A *****
I'm WHITE and have black friends so I MUST think I'm black
I'm MEXICAN so I MUST hop fences | | I'm Mexican and I'm in my 30s so I must be fat. |
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